funwithfuel
Senior Member
Sorry for your loss. I can't say anything to ease your pain. Make sure you and your wife are open with each other. I suspect you'll need one another like never before. Again, very sorry.
WOW, I don't know what to say. One of my brother in laws is going through the same thing. My nephew, 33, wasn't feeling well. Told his dad I'm going in to get check out. Stopped by Wal Mart on the way in. Collapsed in the parking lot and died. This was less than 2 weeks ago. Services are tomorrow. He is absolutely devastated. No idea as to the cause of death. All they know is that drugs and booze was not involved. I will have you and your wife in my thoughts tomorrow as we bury my nephew. A parent should never have to burry a child.I dont know where to put this.
In july 2019 our daughter got diagnosed with cancer. 31 years old. Devastating, so thru the ups and downs of very aggressive chemo, which didnt do much, we visited in sept 19.
Stomach cancer , stage 4, when I got the call while Mom was with her that it spread to her liver and was moving fast I hauled ass to Wisconsin.
Got to have a couple good conversations than goodness after I arrived.
She lost the battle march 5th. our hearts are destroyed as you can imagine.
She turned 32 feb 29th, leaper baby, set her phone down that monday, hospice came in on wed afternoon and she passed pain free next morning 5 am ish.
Had no children .
I hate the fact parents lose any say about care once a child gets married, to a shitbag in this instance. Sadly but that is a long ,blood pressure raising story.
If this isnt allowed let me know.
f**k cancer.
I live in a small world.WOW, I don't know what to say. One of my brother in laws is going through the same thing. My nephew, 33, wasn't feeling well. Told his dad I'm going in to get check out. Stopped by Wal Mart on the way in. Collapsed in the parking lot and died. This was less than 2 weeks ago. Services are tomorrow. He is absolutely devastated. No idea as to the cause of death. All they know is that drugs and booze was not involved. I will have you and your wife in my thoughts tomorrow as we bury my nephew. A parent should never have to burry a child.
Rick
Thank you all for the kind words.
Being a good mechanic, I am devastated I couldnt fix this. I finally stopped beating myself up about that. May sound strange but by Damn I was put on earth to fix things. I have failed.
And She is pain free. The only blessing I can find. I couldnt believe the amount of meds She was on before hospice and still in agony.
If I sound angry and confused,I am, and My awesome wife is too. We are there for each other as someone mentioned.
Thanks Again All