Ok, so i tried the FNR unplugging and this had no effect. I put the machine in forward and then back into neutral, then unplugged the FNR lever from the machine. It remained in forward while in neutral.
My next test was what Finca sdr suggested and to "tap" the top of the solenoid valve for the forward. I restarted the machine and it was back in neutral (i think). I revved the gas just to be sure that it wouldn't move.
I then put the machine in Reverse before attempting forward and...what do you know, it goes in reverse. So i put the machine in forward and it moves forward, BUT will not return to neutral or reverse.
My current thought is that it is a faulty forward solenoid valve stem (stuck open). I went out and bought a special socket to remove them stem but it is not budging, and i really don't want to strip this. I've already soaked it in PB blaster. I've attached some pictures of the stem in question. It takes a deep socket 1 1/8". I might hire out for this. I bought a amazon replacement stem but does not appear to match up, might have to get a real john deere stem if this can't be repaired.