Search the truck wreckers ask them for a 18,000-20,000lb front axle out of a International truck so it will be a easy swap into your truck. You want the front springs and spring shackles and spring pins. You want the axle drum to drum with S cam brakes no wedge brakes.
When I looked at your Webshots pictures that truck you have is a real short wheelbase with the set back axle. I imagine your front axle is overloaded all the time. Eventually something will bend.
Then once you have a heavier axle you make the decision do you want to run Supersingle steers or the heavy skinny steer tire 315/80R22.5 which is rated at 9000lbs per tire compare to a 11R22.5 6100lbs per tire which isn't enough. Most gravel trucks in my area run the 425/65R22.5 steer tire which is rated at 11,400lbs per tire. The supersingles handle better also they have a higher speed rating 65mph compared to 55mph for the 315s because the 425 disperses the heat better.
If your International doesn't have dual steering boxes then your better off with the 315 steer tires.
It will be worth putting a heavier front axle and springs under the truck it will give you more leeway on payload and durability. The truck will handle alot better with a load. I imagine now the truck doesn't steer that nice with a heavy load the 12,000lb front axle bends and messes with the wheel alinement.
The old L-9000 Fords had the same problem the ones around here only had 16,000lb front axles and the trucks were always overweight on the front axle.
Your front axle capacity doesn't mean squat if the tires don't have enough capacity. I forget how many pounds per inch of tire width is.
Last thing the axle you want should have budd hubs on it so you can run fancy chrome wheels
Not much you can do with dayton (spoke) wheels except for painting them.