There lies the problem.... do it right, but do it cheap. To me, the road is lower than the fence line, so it needs to be built up, and if not crowned, sloped to the right. In my experience, geotec fabric is a waste of money unless you put a good lift of material over top of it. I know nothing of grid material, other than tearing it up with the grader trying to grade woods roads.. Not sure about there, but here RAP is $40 bucks a ton, and that mud will still come through it if you can't get rid of it. If it was here, I would see if they would be interested in doing it in stages, depending on their budget. One year, use sandstone, or whatever you have there for clean fill and build up the road base higher than it is in order to get rid of the mud, then next year, or later in the season, top it off with whatever. I find RAP is great, but if it gets rough, it can't be reshaped, and if it's not screened or crushed, the big pieces will move and cause future potholes. Just remember that the better the job you do on the sub grade, the less material you need for the top coat to fill in the dips.