Guys, just a little update. I had to have a small trip with my RGN yesterday and we added shims made of angle iron. I put them in the back of the goose neck.
It very visibly adjusted the ride height near the neck and the front looked very nice and level with the back, about 6 inches off the ground. I am VERY happy. Thanks to ALL for your great ideas!
The load was 30,000 lbs (a forklift) and everything looked very well.
I may go to plastic shims (HDPE, like kitchen cutting boards) though just to avoid denting these shimmed surfaces.