I was teasing you a little bit. Please listen to advice, and ask questions before trying something else, or if you don't understand the advice. I don't like stop leak products. I had never heard of IRONTITE, and still don't like the idea of most stop leak products, the tar ball one is even worse. Here is a good explanation of cooling system flushing:
http://www.sancarlosradiator.com/VoltageDrop/flush.htm
I like a combination of the live flush and the hose drop flush. or an air blast flush if needed. Sounds like you don't need any more flushing though.
The water pump is a common item to wear out and need routine replacement, more from time and neglect than with regular hours. If you can reach it, it's not bad at all, may even be cheaper than $100.
Is the cylinder you're talking about just like one you'd find on the tailgate of a minivan etc? A hood lift assist cylinder? Those usually just have a spring that grabs hold of the ball socket and you pop them off the ball with a pry bar.